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Mom: Girl killed herself over online hoax

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Megan Meier thought she had made a new friend in cyberspace when a cute teenage boy named Josh contacted her on MySpace and began exchanging messages with her.

Megan, a 13-year-old who suffered from depression and attention deficit disorder, corresponded with Josh for more than a month before he abruptly ended their friendship, telling her he had heard she was cruel.

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{"commentId":1198246,"authorDomain":"berry"}
Her family learned later that Josh never actually existed; he was created by members of a neighborhood family that included a former friend of Megan's.

This is just completely reprehensible. This people should get serious jail time for their little "hoax".

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  • 3 votes
Reply#1 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 9:14 AM EST
{"commentId":1198273,"authorDomain":"melonhead"}

Parents really need to monitor their kids' online usage. I make no apology for doing so. One of the first things they should be taught is that people lie like mad on the internet. Second, for young teens, MySpace should only be used amongst kids who know one another.

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#1.1 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 9:28 AM EST
{"commentId":1198317,"authorDomain":"berry"}

I agree. One problem is that kids often know more about PCs than their parents do and many parents, who aren't PC literate, would even know how to find MySpace or track their kid's online movements. PCs need to come with better parental control software pre-installed and regularly updated with the latest sites and dangers that parents need to be aware of.

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  • 2 votes
#1.2 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 9:51 AM EST
{"commentId":1198714,"authorDomain":"ivy-mike"}

OR parents should do the groundwork themselves and learn how to operate the $1400 machine they just purchased for Bobby or Suzy. Seriously folks I run a side business fixing PC's and I see this all the time. A computer is a large purchase and comes with a large responsibility. I don't buy that kids know more about PC's than parents. I say they know even less at times simply because they don't care. Teens get online and ignore warnings, or don't read pop ups and just press 'ok'. They install free sharing software and get mom or dad into trouble for downloading pirated music or trading illicit pictures with each other via chat. I really like what Micro$oft has done with Vista and it's parental controls but not too many people are using it yet. Parents have to pay attention just like they would (or should) when the kids get a drivers license.

It's even worse with cell phones. Just think of all the personal data getting tossed about without a care in the world because someone thought it was cool to video something and put it on the internet. It's going to get even worse in the next 10 years when kids won't even need PC's they'll have their own PDA's attached to their phones. (stepping down from soapbox) :)

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#1.3 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:08 PM EST
{"commentId":1199887,"authorDomain":"soundscape"}

I hate parents who try and leave all the responsibility to others. Whether it be new laws, or even "parental control software pre-installed". Monitor your children, take care of them, protect them. Not knowing how to use a computer is no excuse.

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#1.4 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 5:58 PM EST
{"commentId":1202104,"authorDomain":"jamesmirick"}

@SoundScape: Absolutely true on all counts. By my observation, what so many kids need is adult face-time, with an adult who cares about what they do, what they are feeling, etc. Not a "helicopter parent" who hovers over them all the time, but parents who are engaged in their lives, who know who their friends are, and what their fears are. A parent who has "time available" whenever the kid needs it. Too many parents have absolutely abdicated parental tasks to schools, day care, athletic programs, or the neighbors because they're too busy, too committed, have too many nail appointments, etc.

And yes, a tween / teen needs to have effective management over their online activities by someone who actually understands the technology and who understands that in some ways a computer is much like a loaded gun and needs to be treated with respect and great care.

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  • 2 votes
#1.5 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 12:29 PM EST
{"commentId":1202224,"authorDomain":"melonhead"}

beautifully put, Jim.The tween/teen years are tricky. Our kids want to be protected and independent all at once.

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  • 2 votes
#1.6 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 1:07 PM EST
{"commentId":1203570,"authorDomain":"ivy-mike"}

I have two young sons and believe me; although I can't wait until they "outhack" me. I also dread the day. :)

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    #1.7 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 8:28 PM EST
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    {"commentId":1198310,"authorDomain":"ryan-salter"}

    The crazy part is how the fictious account had been set up by a mother to see what the girl who killed herself was saying about HER daughter.

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    • 2 votes
    Reply#2 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 9:47 AM EST
    {"commentId":1200679,"authorDomain":"melonhead"}

    I wonder if that mother can be found liable.

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    #2.1 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 10:44 PM EST
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    {"commentId":1198364,"authorDomain":"newsguru"}
    Megan's parents are now separated and plan to divorce.

    How is that related? How did that happen?

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    • 1 vote
    Reply#3 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 10:15 AM EST
    {"commentId":1198811,"authorDomain":"jeiche"}

    Many of us have heard or read the "statistics" showing that the death of a child often leads to divorce. That seems to be the subtext of the sentence in the article.

    Unfortunately, those "statistics," like so much "common knowledge," don't actually exist. In fact, one recent survey points in exactly the opposite direction:

    Bereaved parents should know that the death of their child, devastating as that is, need not mean the death of their marriage.

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    #3.1 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:37 PM EST
    {"commentId":1200076,"authorDomain":"behindmyscreen"}

    If the child is the reason they are married, then it will likely result in a divorce.

    Bad premise for marriage no matter what will lead you to a divorce in any stressful situation.... the death of a child being the worst, or second worst (I can't recall if the worst is child death or spousal death)

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      #3.2 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:25 PM EST
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      {"commentId":1198479,"authorDomain":"nefariousone73"}

      Well the mother who created the false account is surely a good example for her child. This is someone who shouldn't even be a parent. Teens can be cruel to one another. She should have been teaching her daughter not to let it get to her and to move on, not spying on the girl.

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      • 3 votes
      Reply#4 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 10:54 AM EST
      {"commentId":1198594,"authorDomain":"stacym"}

      I feel really bad for their kid, and the kid of the other woman who eventually told the truth. These girls have to carry around the fact that they influenced a peer's suicide, that's going to be with them for a long time.

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      • 6 votes
      #4.1 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 11:31 AM EST
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      {"commentId":1198989,"authorDomain":"freewriter88"}

      I agree - how could a parent do such a thing to a teen? Some parents are complete idiots.

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      • 3 votes
      Reply#5 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 1:29 PM EST
      {"commentId":1199500,"authorDomain":"genericpsycho"}
      It told the girl she was a bad person and the world would be better without her, he has said.

      'He' was encouraging her to kill herself. Assisted suicide, anyone?

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        Reply#6 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 3:51 PM EST
        {"commentId":1200068,"authorDomain":"behindmyscreen"}

        Right there there is a crime. I think though the article says they have not been able to retrieve that comment.

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          #6.1 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:23 PM EST
          {"commentId":4775265,"authorDomain":"lisadd"}

          If it was typed and sent, they should be able to find it.  I find it absolutely appalling that an adult would encourage something like this.  Children invent enough of their own bullying tactics without encouragement by adults.  I actually get slammed by other adults for monitoring my child's activities and that is one of the ways I found out she was being bullied.  Like urbane gorilla, I make NO apologies for monitoring my teen's on-line activities.

          I agree, a crime has been committed - involuntary manslaughter, something!  Maybe she didn't intend for Megan to hurt herself; however, her actions as ringleader and the actions she encouraged lead this beautiful, young lady to take her own life.  One should not play dangerous games with somebody else's state of mind and then try to make excuses later when the game ends tragically.

          I hope Megan's parents fight this until the end.  Justice needs to be served in this case and it needs to be fair!

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            #6.2 - Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:53 AM EST
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            {"commentId":1199668,"authorDomain":"babin"}

            Kids get picked on like this ALL THE TIME when it comes to computers. Online harassing is amusing when it comes to 'weaker' peers. Easy prey for cheap laughs at their expense. Shame she committed suicide. Sounds like she was bound for a life of victimization unless gaining some huge amount of self-esteem. Bets are she was overweight and unpopular at school.

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              Reply#7 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 4:43 PM EST
              {"commentId":1199846,"authorDomain":"genericpsycho"}

              I don't understand what you were trying to say. She deserved it? This is funny?

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              • 1 vote
              #7.1 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 5:41 PM EST
              {"commentId":1200066,"authorDomain":"behindmyscreen"}

              try RTFA. there is a picture of her.

              babin, you are a cruel person if you really mean that. I am reporting your comment.

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              #7.2 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:22 PM EST
              {"commentId":1202155,"authorDomain":"babin"}

              I was making a comment on how this is commonplace. No of course it is NOT funny and is NOT acceptable. It is a sad commentary on the effect of online harrassment esp. when it comes to young impressionable and kids with low self-esteem. Hopefully charges have been pressed against the other family. I know it's a touchy conversation but try to relax and be objective. Don't you think other children marked as the 'runt in the litter' should be empowered by their friends and parents to overcome bully's? Do any of you have a child you think would be influnced enough by online harrassment to commit suicide? If so what would to do for your child - not simply going after the person playing the 'joke?' - It is equally important if not more so as situation such as this one might have occured over and over again in high shcool...college... - You know the school shooter in Virginia was a social outcast - and before you jump all over me more making the comparison - step back and think - What could be done to empower the socially victimized and prevent suicide or 'postal' incidents :)

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              • 1 vote
              #7.3 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 12:45 PM EST
              {"commentId":1208796,"authorDomain":"genericpsycho"}
              Online harassing is amusing when it comes to 'weaker' peers

              Amusing generally means funny. Did you mean something else?

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                #7.4 - Fri Nov 23, 2007 12:16 AM EST
                {"commentId":1216429,"authorDomain":"babin"}

                Not amusing to me. Amusing to the persons committing the act. Which is why they do it. In this case the other family.

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                  #7.5 - Mon Nov 26, 2007 11:55 AM EST
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                  {"commentId":1200059,"authorDomain":"behindmyscreen"}

                  While there may be some civil suit here, the real reason the girl killed her self is likely her own mother.

                  The girl was under attack on line being called all sorts of names, she suffered from depression and was likely on medications (SSRIs are not suitable for children or teenagers because they will induce more depression). Rather than the mother consoling her in her time of need, she scolded her for the language she was using to defend herself.

                  As a parent, I know that you focus first on your child's behavior, especially if you are strict, so I feel uneasy about blaming the mother and will simply call her actions a significant contributing factor or even the catalyst.

                  I also think that the parents were not forceful enough in getting access to her after she ran upstairs. Had they not allowed a lock on her door, or had they not allowed her to keep the door locked and went up after her to resolve the issue immediately, she would have been able to be pulled back off the ledge she found herself on, or at the very least, the parents could have identified a larger disturbance in her behaviors and taken her to the hospital.

                  There were many factors in this, but I think the mother's behavior was the catalyst that ignited the soup of activities that had been made.

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                  • 1 vote
                  Reply#8 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:20 PM EST
                  {"commentId":1200701,"authorDomain":"melonhead"}
                  the real reason the girl killed her self is likely her own mother.

                  Whoa, there! I'm glad you went on to say you at least feel uneasy blaming the mom. Still, why do you feel free to assume the child was on SSRIs? What with the armchair psychiatry?

                  I am the parent of a child who has had depressive episodes. For the sake of my kid's privacy I won't go into any details, I just need to say you have no idea.

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                  • 1 vote
                  #8.1 - Mon Nov 19, 2007 10:58 PM EST
                  {"commentId":1201606,"authorDomain":"ryan-salter"}

                  We're making way to many assumptions here based on extremely limited information...

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                  • 2 votes
                  #8.2 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 10:05 AM EST
                  {"commentId":1203307,"authorDomain":"behindmyscreen"}

                  Yes, it was an assumption that she was on SSRIs but it was one that is based on the fact that there is a pervasive over medication of children today and especially in depressed children. SSRIs are a common anti-depressant and used off label with children. They are not tested for use in children and have been shown from off label use to cause depressed children to have a higher likelihood of suicide.

                  Aside from that, I was more focused on her interaction with her daughter. Was it wise, is it ever wise, to criticize your child about their language in response to his/her bullies without acknowledging their feelings first?

                  Yeah, sure, 20/20 vision... right? Well, I still contend that it was that very reaction to her daughter that catalyzed the situation.

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                  • 1 vote
                  #8.3 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 6:31 PM EST
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                  {"commentId":1201570,"authorDomain":"gregjarvis"}

                  Oh well, survival of the fittest.

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                    Reply#9 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 9:51 AM EST
                    {"commentId":1202198,"authorDomain":"babin"}

                    As cold and callous as it sounds it is a good point. I'm sure this is an 'easier' discussion for those without children (or those without kids who get picked on) and I KNOW that will make certain people 'mad.'

                    Let's compare this story to a study of monkeys. One monkey is in the corner hiding from the others. Socially rejected and for whatever reason unbalanced. This social envionment begins to affect the animals physcial well-being. This causes the other monkeys to isolate and attack the 'abnormal' specimen. I'm sure some of you have seen this on PBS. They eventually put the animal to sleep.

                    Take the human rights out of this one and debate from there. That's where I was going with this one...

                    Otherwise - yes it is indeed a tragedy. If I knew her i'm sure I'd be sickened by the whole thing.

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                      #9.1 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 12:58 PM EST
                      {"commentId":1202457,"authorDomain":"gregjarvis"}

                      This kind of garbage drives me nuts though. Yes its a tragedy, I wont argue that at all. But this is the kind of news story that gets blown up and some ass clown political leader will decide to pass some new law over it that will effect normal society instead of dealing with real issues. Lets have some congressman get all upset over this easy target story just like al sharpton picks easy white on black crimes to publicize instead of any black on black murders.

                      Its like if a family gets killed in a car accident because the other driver was using a cell phone. Yes, its a tragedy but lets not pass state wide laws BANNING CELL PHONES FOREVER because of someones mistake. I hate this crap, it drives me nuts.

                      I can just see some @!$%# standing in front of a camera blaming the internet and so on. I'll lose it. Lets not blame the parents. Nahhh that would make too much sense. A 13 year old girl online should only be governed by AOL's privacy filters. Holy st.

                      /rant

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                      • 1 vote
                      #9.2 - Tue Nov 20, 2007 2:10 PM EST
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                      {"commentId":1206096,"authorDomain":"ftcamski"}

                      I agree with most of the people on here who say that the parents should have been more vigilant and place more controls and monitor what their daughter was doing. I am a parent myself, 5 children between the ages of 7 months and 17 Yrs old and I understand the importance of monitoring what kids do on-line. However, both sides of the stories should be studied. We have an adult woman who is further advanced and educated than this 14 year old girl. A woman who used who used that education and knowledge to cause pain and suffering for a teenager. She manipulated this young girl and purposely hurt her in order to avenge an argument between Megan and her own daughter. How can she not be held liable in having caused enough pain in Megan's life to make her want to die? Let me just throw this in... had it been a 30 year old guy that did this charges would have probably been brought up.
                      I think megans family should file a civil suit if the government will not.

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                      • 1 vote
                      Reply#10 - Wed Nov 21, 2007 5:58 PM EST
                      {"commentId":1444916,"authorDomain":"michealreneknight"}

                      i think that was very childish for the parent to go online an make a fake myspace i hope that the person who i left accountable for this pays there time even if its not jail god will give them a punishment

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                        Reply#11 - Thu Feb 7, 2008 12:24 PM EST
                        {"commentId":1444926,"authorDomain":"michealreneknight"}

                        i think that was very childish for the parent to go online an make a fake myspace i hope that the person who i left accountable for this pays there time even if its not jail god will give them a punishment

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                          Reply#12 - Thu Feb 7, 2008 12:25 PM EST
                          {"commentId":1489080,"authorDomain":"jaggu-44"}

                          The DVD player filters/skips objectionable scenes/dialogues on any DVD rented or hired
                          Make the movies "family time" again! we bring whole family together, and what better way to do it than with a family movie night?

                          .

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                            Reply#13 - Wed Feb 20, 2008 5:50 AM EST
                            {"commentId":2093879,"authorDomain":"Warchief"}

                            I think they should have taken the table parts and crammed them up that b atchies rectal area and then told her to move!!!

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                              Reply#14 - Tue Jul 1, 2008 11:17 AM EDT
                              {"commentId":2192144,"authorDomain":"jackye-l-russell"}

                              Ok this is so sad. My niece is going trough something very similar, but the girl who portrayed a boy would send her text messages, and pictures, the boy was supposedly on vacation and died while on vacation. my niece was tore up for so long and still is then she finds out it was supposedly one of her friends who made up the boy. this girl was mad because another boy liked my niece and not her. so this sadistic girl made up a boy made my niece like him, and then said he died. she even had someone pretend to be the boys mom and had my niece call her and talk to her after his supposed death. my sister went to talk to her parents, and the father in law said she was in big trouble and that the mom would be over with her to talk to her. but this still has not happend. how can people be so sadistic

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                                Reply#15 - Mon Jul 14, 2008 7:17 PM EDT
                                {"commentId":2372761,"authorDomain":"elseams"}

                                all of the sides taken on this unfortunate happening are legitimate, but come on people, does no one remember how crappy being 13 was? stuff like this happens every day, but now its so easy to blame ADD or depression or SSRIs or Myspace. and there will always be bullies. if these people hadn't gotten to her, someone else would have, and probably sooner than later. but instead of informing our youth that life sucks, we diagnose and medicate, assuring them that it will get better. and when it doesn't? things like this happen. we ALL need to take a little responsibility for this sick sad epidemic, and look back at ourselves at that age. if we did, adults like the ones involved might think twice, and when things did get tough, our kids might know how to deal.

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                                  Reply#16 - Tue Aug 5, 2008 4:21 PM EDT
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                                  {"commentId":4135529,"authorDomain":"bwayne651"}

                                  She is a great example of motherhood. I hope she gets the 20 years

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                                    Reply#18 - Thu Nov 20, 2008 2:40 AM EST
                                    {"commentId":4253912,"authorDomain":"JOYZOZ"}

                                    some women and a man did the same thing to me. except the fake myspace was of me and they stole real stuff off my real page. then they used the fake one to write themselves letters that were horrible to have me put into jail. they didn't come to court so the da knew they committed perjury but still didn't charge them. myspace didn't care. i wrote them several times with no response except for they found the page and it will be deleted. the people continued to write me calling me horrible names and then started writing saying they are sorry???? i still have the letters but the da doesn't care. i started to kill myself but ended up the dr wanted me in the hospital but instead put me on many pills. now i can't see hardly at all-side effects. i also had to help my daughter get $2000 so she could move to a safe place because they had started writing and threatening her. they kept trying to get her to ad them and stuff. i believe it what happened to me would have been made public and the montgomery da would have got the ip address of the account they would have had proof to charge these people. it it would have been made public maybe these people wouldn't have had the tánaiste to do this to this little girl. i know how she felt that day i still feel it. plus they made me look like the bad guy when they are the real criminal and the da can get proof just ip and phone numbers.?????doesn't anyone in this world care. i even called the press and they did nothing. i need a inexpensive good lawyer to help me press a civil case.  i know the mental pain this child went through because i have felt the same pain for the same reason and nobody cares.  all they care about is money not getting justice.  i will take a polygraph!!!  people in this world are so cruel and evil.  joyce elaine reaves oswald of rutledge, al

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                                      Reply#19 - Mon Dec 1, 2008 10:25 PM EST
                                      {"commentId":4535576,"authorDomain":"christine122663"}

                                      It is a shame that this young lady was influenced to take her  life over an internet friend/boyfriend.  For this young lady to be driven to this point she obiviously had other things going on in her life. (It seems her mother knew there were problems why didn't she take the computer away for a while intead of letting her continue to use it) Even though what the mother of the other teen did was completely wrong and cruel it all boils down to free speech and no one should be denied the opportunity to express themselves.  The way I see it is if you are going to use the internet/myspace or chat rooms then I figure that you have the following options: block the annoying person from bothering you, develop a thick skin and ignore it or simply do not use the internet.   I am sure most of us were picked on as kids/teenagers and sometimes it was pretty cruel but comitting suicide never entered my mind.

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